And even when they are home with you Expectations of time together is a mirage. And it was the most miserable and lousy choice I ever made. Marriage is unbelievably amazing and indescribably painful; I have been at it for 28 years with my soul mate.
Never mind the paycheck because I even earn more than him. I have many friends and members of my family who married within the church and later divorced. In our church, women are treated with more respect, and are considered to have a literal free ticket to heaven, simply bu because their female. It's called selfishness and inability to set priorities. BYU was once the perfect place to find a great young woman and get married. After being in relationship with him for 3 years, he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. The important things that keep our marriage a happy, healthy, and very loving one are the same things that keep any other marriage alive and well.
Think about what you want in a relationship. How would that motivate you to work out every day to get a girl. But now, in addition to being a primary spouse, I'm also the primary parent.
I'm sorry, but I don't pity you all. If this is someone you are to marry, then the rest will take care of itself. But, if ever were there were a time to be overly cautious it's with this topic. I was born and raised in the LDS faith. If you shift his way, be prepared for the social costs of inactivityвplus, if you really believe the doctrine, a crisis of faith.